We always want a reason. We always want an explanation. We always want to be able to look at the situation and say 'this is why this happened.' I think that sometimes, there just isn't a reason. There is just evil.
More advice is just to do what's right from the beginning. It will cost A LOT less and end A LOT sooner, if you can put aside your emotion, pride and greed and seek out a resolution instead of causing more issues each week.
The key though is complete honesty with those that are closest to you. Those that truly care about you won't judge you. If they do, walk away from them. You can't have deep, meaningful relationships if you aren't completely "You".
And then you have days like a couple of weeks ago. Someone flirted with this insecure woman (me). And not just with a silly come-on...with real intention. Like phone calls and text follow up after running into each other, type of flirting. And it felt so darn amazing!
Women can be intimidating. Women can be soft. Women can be hard. Women can be strong. Women can be funny. Women can be the center of a family. Women can be emotional. Women can be the breadwinner. Women can be the reason that no one forgets lunch and has clean clothes. Women can be the CEO of a company. Women can be the CEO of a household. Women are the backbone of the family. Women are the center of the world.