two lessons i’ve learned during the ‘big d’ #2

2 Valuable lessons that I've learned during my 2nd divorce.

2 comments on “take 2: showing my scars”

take 2: showing my scars

I never want anyone else to feel like I did - ashamed, embarrassed, self-conscious because of the bruises...What someone feels is ok to do to you - harm you physically - is not okay and not your fault. I wish I could have absorbed this earlier than when I finally did. A man that physically attacks a women is not a man - not a normal human being - it's not ok and they are showing how weak THEY are NOT how weak you are. I've decided to take a second shot at exposing my most raw emotions about something that I would never want another woman to ever go through.

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the first flirt

And then you have days like a couple of weeks ago. Someone flirted with this insecure woman (me). And not just with a silly come-on...with real intention. Like phone calls and text follow up after running into each other, type of flirting. And it felt so darn amazing!